Life From A Mile High

HUMPPPP DAAAAAY! Hi readers! Lex is utterly exhausted today but I can’t wait any longer to tell you all about the most amazing adventure of my life thus far.

One week ago I was drinking and eating in Morrison, Colorado.

Manmeat looking at the mountains at dinner.

The first 24 hours in Colorado felt so surreal. I couldn’t stop saying “Babe, we’re in Colorado!”.

So how did we end up planning this? Well when I quit my job in the midst of the virus I figured I had free time to use wisely. My mom’s life long best friend who I now consider my aunt just happens to live in a place I’ve been dying to visit and just happened to have an extra bedroom for her favorite niece and her boyfriend!

Since we didn’t have a ton of time we used it as best we could. Colorado literally has so much to do that it was impossible to do everything in the four days we had. People were throwing recommendations at us left and right but we decided to make sure we do three things we knew we wanted to do: hike Rocky Mountain National Park, visit Red Rocks Amphitheater, and spend time with my aunt and cousin.

The first night we crossed off Red Rocks that list. Unfortunately it was impossible to get close because the park is closed down from the virus but being the little rebels we were we hopped the caution signs and walked pretty damn close.

Looking over the city from a Red Rocks entrance

Being alone in the park was so eerie but amazing. We both have watched videos of people like Mumford and Sons performing there and finally being there was like a dream.. much like the whole trip.

We wanted to stay and see the stars because it’s supposed to be a perfect spot but it was a cloudy night so we headed back to the Denver area to rest up for day 2.

Day 2

Our view driving to the park

Day 2 was solely reserved for hiking in the Rockies. We both have a love for hiking and nature which is what originally drew us both to Colorado. It was surreal constantly seeing mountains in the distance.

Driving to dinner? Mountains. Going to get gas? Mountains. Landing in a plane? Mountains.

I probably said “Babe, LOOK!” about the mountains at least 500 times (hehe sorry babe).

Being in the mountains was a totally different ball game. The high altitude made 6 steps feel like a mile and it was tough to get used to but damn… it was worth it.

I use an app called AllTrails to find my paths I wanna take on hikes. I also researched what trail is popular in the Rockies and I came across the Dream Lake trail.

Mid-hike to the lakes!

After stopping a million times to admire the views and the wildlife we finally made it to the first lake. Dream Lake. The name speaks for itself but obviously a picture is a must.

Dream Lake.

After we got to Dream Lake we saw a sign to continue on to Emerald Lake so naturally we had to check it out. .7 miles later we came to the opening.

Looking over Emerald Lake.

I could not believe my eyes at every step of this hike. It felt so surreal.

We sat and took a break to eat some snacks and take in some scenery before going back down.

Again- it felt so surreal to be sitting there with my soulmate looking at this view. It was one of those “life can’t get better than this” moments.

On the way to the top we met some pretty cool people who loved taking pictures for us (like the kid from West Virginia who took this one). It was so much more than the views that made it amazing. The views were just the reward.

I know a lot of people don’t have the same love for hiking and the outdoors as I do so it may be hard to understand. To try to understand think of the thing that makes you feel most alive and then imagine getting the best of it and being completely surrounded by it.

The hike down felt like 10 minutes compared to our 3 hours up the mountain. I was so sad to go but loved watching the scenery just as much on the way home.

Last Hours

The last two days were meant for my manmeat to get to know my aunt and cousin. It was amazing to just enjoy their company and hear my aunts hilarious laugh. Living far away from family sucks especially when they’re so amazing. To have the time we did was priceless. We ate so much yummy food and laughed and got to know each other more. On the last day it was depressing to not know when I’d see them again. I kept reminding myself how I’ve finally visited her in HER home instead of her coming to Buffalo. I am so thankful to have open arms to greet me around the country.

To My Adventure Partner

It is rare to find a person that you click so naturally with and also have the same likes and desires. I was lucky enough to find my best friend/ soulmate/ adventure partner wrapped into one person.

From cruising down the highway listening to our favorite bands, to breaking into parks, to seeing MOOSE!!, to seeing the most amazing views of our lives, to falling in love even more- I can’t describe how perfect of a getaway this was.

Knowing that I have a person who makes anywhere feel like home and makes everything exciting is the most comforting feeling.

I hope everyone finds someone to see the world with.

I know this is the first of a lifetime of adventures and I cannot wait!

In July 2021 we already have tickets booked to see our favorite band at Red Rocks so yes, we will be back to Colorado!!!!

We have plans to visit Aspen and Breckenridge, Colorado Springs, Pikes Peak, and return to Rocky Mountain National Park. There’s just an endless amount of things to do and see in that state.

Who knows… maybe Buffalo won’t be my forever home.

I love this love

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  1. how has he helped you get through stuff this time around ? What has he done differently than any other boyfriend you’ve had during an episode

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    1. He is extremely patient and really puts his life on hold when I’m having an anxiety attack. He cares to understand what I’m going through or why I feel that way. He does everything he can to make sure I feel comfortable. It’s a love I’ve never felt!

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      1. That’s amazing 🥺😭 my ex and I broke up because he didn’t ever understand or care why I was feeling a certain way. It makes me so happy to see him care so much for you. Has this halted the moving in process at all? Or is that still in the works

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      2. That sucks. I am so sorry but he clearly wasn’t the one to be your life partner. The right one will understand! And it’s still in the works 🙂

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  2. so exciting to see you guys will be moving in together ! Any ideas on where or are you guys buying a house ? what an awesome time this must be for both of you

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  3. what will your next post be about ? I know you mentioned something with your boyfriend in the last one but I wasn’t sure with everything going on if you had changed the topic ? I’m glad to see you’re doing better was scared you were giving up blogging

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  4. How did you handle going through an anxiety attack again and being so new at a job? I know when I have mine I’m laid up in bed for days and really struggle to leave the house I’m always scared that will happen if I start a new position somewhere

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    1. Luckily my new job is amazing and so understanding and they allowed me to take time off until I felt better! It’s all about being open and honest. Since mental health is more talked about more employers should be more accepting! It always gets easier eventually.. don’t give up!

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      1. Do you know what trigged you this time ? I’ve been trying to keep a log of anytime my anxiety starts to creep up again, I know it’s different for everyone but sometimes just helps to know I’m not alone going through this awful time

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      2. I think it was creeping up for a while and I didn’t notice. I’ve been stressed the past few months with how different life is from covid and having a serious boyfriend.. it always comes out when I have a lot of changes going on!

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  5. if you’re looking for nice apartments in Lancaster/Depew my friends live in edgewater im not sure when you’re looking to move but they are such cute little places

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  6. has going through this experience with someone like your boyfriend made you love him more ? I know you mentioned previous comment that having a serious boyfriend caused some anxiety, which I can understand it’s a big change from being single to now having someone who’s part of your life everyday, just being adjusted and learning to have a routine especially since you said you guys kinda live together now ? That’s a big change !

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    1. Oh 100%! If anything this made it crystal clear that I want to be with him always! We’re with each other everyday and sleeping at either of our houses almost 7 days a week but not actually living in the same house yet! It made it obvious that we can be together all the time and we work well. I think Covid and my anxiety made us even stronger!

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  7. this might sound lame but I have been jealous of you for years, you’re beautiful have it all together and seem so sweet. To know that you are going through the same things everyone else does is reassuring you are human LOL. Maybe the next post could be all about you ? And what makes you who you are if that makes sense ?

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    1. Awh! Thank you so much.. but trust me I do not have it all together! I’m a struggle bus just like everyone else. Social media can make anyone’s life seem perfect!! And I could definitely do something like that.. I have one in the works for my next post but after that I’ll do one on me!

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  8. do you already have a ring and wedding idea in mind ? I am in the middle of planning mine and I just get so excited when others are about to take that step

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    1. I am very close with his family! His friends I am somewhat but they are a close knit group so I’m still getting to know all them which has been hard with Covid! I love them all though.

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  9. would you be down to answer some questions if I left them for you ? Kinda about your relationship, if they are too personal or don’t wanna please feel free to skip them !

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      1. 1. What was your first impression about your partner?
        2. What did you like or love about your partner?
        3. How did the relationship start?
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        5. artner?
        6. Do you like spending time with your partner’s friends and family?
        7. How often do you talk on the phone with your partner?
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        9. What was the best moment in your relationship so far? (Are you smiling while recalling that moment?)
        10. How do you show your love for each other?

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  10. favorites quiz!

    favorite song-
    favorite color-
    favorite restaurant-
    favorite ice cream flavor-
    favorite memory from 2019-
    favorite trip-
    favorite store to shop at-
    favorite memory with your boyfriend-

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  11. do you like answering questions from us ? I always wondered if you find them annoying or not just helps us get to know you better I think ! Feels like we have all been friends for years lol as weird as that sounds, like a little family

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  12. how do you deal with mean girls ? I wouldn’t ever say I’m being bullied but I’m just the target of a group of these nasty girls and I just don’t even know what to do

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    1. I ignore them and know that they clearly have something bothering them on a personal level that has nothing to do with me or they’re jealous of me which they shouldn’t be! After I think that I let it slide. Not everyone has a good heart but we can’t let that get us down!

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  13. do you and manmeat have fun things coming up in the next few months? I know you mentioned moving I wasn’t sure if that was the next big summer adventure for you two

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  14. would you care if your boyfriend was friends with his ex ? Mine girlfriend is friends with her ex and I trust her, I just idk I guess I’m just different because I had a really bad breakup I’m talking blocked on everything down to blocked on Venmo lol she was insane..maybe I just don’t understand it because I’m not on that level with my ex I just don’t know how to move past it and be okay with them being friends

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    1. I find it odd when people are friends with their exes in most circumstances. Being civil and cordial is one thing but I don’t really see a point in having a friendship with someone you once dated. Luckily my boyfriend and I don’t talk to our exes so I don’t have to deal with that! Maybe just talk to her to let her know how you feel.

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  15. I am so excited to read your next post, hoping you’re feeling better physically, mentally and emotionally I know how exhausting anxiety can get sometimes. Thank you for not giving go on your blog

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  16. Is your relationship as perfect as you make it seem or do you guys fight or have little issues ? It seems like a fairytale based on what you write about on this page

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    1. We have our arguments but it’s usually over silly stuff and I think we have healthy fights! A relationship without arguments isn’t normal. Thankfully we both communicate well with each other and always understand the others view so it never goes on long. Other than that everything really is beautiful within our relationship !

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  17. I am 24 and still a Virgin and a lot of people make fun of me, I just am waiting for the right one any advice on this one ?

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    1. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with this at all! I waited till I felt comfortable and it was the best decision ever. Just remember why you’re doing it and don’t be bothered by other people’s opinions

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    1. About a month and a half in! We both wanted to say it for a while but we were just casually sitting on his bed one night and it came out! It was so pure and perfect

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    1. Spending the night at sunset with my boyfriends friends and then Saturday and Sunday I have birthday parties for two of my best friends !

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  18. where do you buy most of your shorts from? I am having the hardest time finding them this year !!!!

    Excited for the new post today !

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    1. I bought a pair of Levi’s from Target this year that I love! It’s very rare that I buy shorts.. I have so many from the past 6 years that I continue to wear! Having long legs and wide hips makes it impossible to find a good pair! Try American Eagle too!

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  19. hope you’re doing okay, haven’t had a post from you in awhile just checking in ! Looking forward to reading your wise words soon

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  20. will you be traveling to any bills games ? I know we can’t go into the games but just being in the same place they play is awesome, they’re going to Colorado !!

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    1. No I am not! I went to Nashville last year which was awesome but it won’t be the same without going in to the game so I’m gonna wait till it’s back to normal !

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  21. I saw Emily is looking for models for a wedding shoot !! You guys should do it take a glimpse into your future 😉

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    1. I knew after a month, very easily! He communicates when we have issues, he always make me feel beautiful, he loves to spend time equally with each of our friends and families, and I know he wants a future with me!

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  22. my boyfriend and I are celebrating our one year next weekend and I don’t know what to get him!!! We had a trip planned that got changed due to Covid and I’m panicking any gift ideas ? Or things you’ve done for your bf that he loved ?

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