HUMPPPP DAAAAAY! Hi readers! Lex is utterly exhausted today but I can’t wait any longer to tell you all about the most amazing adventure of my life thus far.
One week ago I was drinking and eating in Morrison, Colorado.

The first 24 hours in Colorado felt so surreal. I couldn’t stop saying “Babe, we’re in Colorado!”.
So how did we end up planning this? Well when I quit my job in the midst of the virus I figured I had free time to use wisely. My mom’s life long best friend who I now consider my aunt just happens to live in a place I’ve been dying to visit and just happened to have an extra bedroom for her favorite niece and her boyfriend!
Since we didn’t have a ton of time we used it as best we could. Colorado literally has so much to do that it was impossible to do everything in the four days we had. People were throwing recommendations at us left and right but we decided to make sure we do three things we knew we wanted to do: hike Rocky Mountain National Park, visit Red Rocks Amphitheater, and spend time with my aunt and cousin.
The first night we crossed off Red Rocks that list. Unfortunately it was impossible to get close because the park is closed down from the virus but being the little rebels we were we hopped the caution signs and walked pretty damn close.

Being alone in the park was so eerie but amazing. We both have watched videos of people like Mumford and Sons performing there and finally being there was like a dream.. much like the whole trip.
We wanted to stay and see the stars because it’s supposed to be a perfect spot but it was a cloudy night so we headed back to the Denver area to rest up for day 2.
Day 2

Day 2 was solely reserved for hiking in the Rockies. We both have a love for hiking and nature which is what originally drew us both to Colorado. It was surreal constantly seeing mountains in the distance.
Driving to dinner? Mountains. Going to get gas? Mountains. Landing in a plane? Mountains.
I probably said “Babe, LOOK!” about the mountains at least 500 times (hehe sorry babe).
Being in the mountains was a totally different ball game. The high altitude made 6 steps feel like a mile and it was tough to get used to but damn… it was worth it.
I use an app called AllTrails to find my paths I wanna take on hikes. I also researched what trail is popular in the Rockies and I came across the Dream Lake trail.

After stopping a million times to admire the views and the wildlife we finally made it to the first lake. Dream Lake. The name speaks for itself but obviously a picture is a must.

After we got to Dream Lake we saw a sign to continue on to Emerald Lake so naturally we had to check it out. .7 miles later we came to the opening.

I could not believe my eyes at every step of this hike. It felt so surreal.
We sat and took a break to eat some snacks and take in some scenery before going back down.
Again- it felt so surreal to be sitting there with my soulmate looking at this view. It was one of those “life can’t get better than this” moments.
On the way to the top we met some pretty cool people who loved taking pictures for us (like the kid from West Virginia who took this one). It was so much more than the views that made it amazing. The views were just the reward.
I know a lot of people don’t have the same love for hiking and the outdoors as I do so it may be hard to understand. To try to understand think of the thing that makes you feel most alive and then imagine getting the best of it and being completely surrounded by it.
The hike down felt like 10 minutes compared to our 3 hours up the mountain. I was so sad to go but loved watching the scenery just as much on the way home.
Last Hours
The last two days were meant for my manmeat to get to know my aunt and cousin. It was amazing to just enjoy their company and hear my aunts hilarious laugh. Living far away from family sucks especially when they’re so amazing. To have the time we did was priceless. We ate so much yummy food and laughed and got to know each other more. On the last day it was depressing to not know when I’d see them again. I kept reminding myself how I’ve finally visited her in HER home instead of her coming to Buffalo. I am so thankful to have open arms to greet me around the country.
To My Adventure Partner
It is rare to find a person that you click so naturally with and also have the same likes and desires. I was lucky enough to find my best friend/ soulmate/ adventure partner wrapped into one person.
From cruising down the highway listening to our favorite bands, to breaking into parks, to seeing MOOSE!!, to seeing the most amazing views of our lives, to falling in love even more- I can’t describe how perfect of a getaway this was.
Knowing that I have a person who makes anywhere feel like home and makes everything exciting is the most comforting feeling.
I hope everyone finds someone to see the world with.
I know this is the first of a lifetime of adventures and I cannot wait!
In July 2021 we already have tickets booked to see our favorite band at Red Rocks so yes, we will be back to Colorado!!!!
We have plans to visit Aspen and Breckenridge, Colorado Springs, Pikes Peak, and return to Rocky Mountain National Park. There’s just an endless amount of things to do and see in that state.
Who knows… maybe Buffalo won’t be my forever home.

wow what an awesome adventure, those pictures are breathtaking. Have you ever thought about starting a photo blog ? The hike looked like some of the best views you’ll ever get in your lifetime. What a perfect place to propose (Hint hint for next time) Did you go to any dispensary’s when you were in Denver, it’s a wild experience. I wanted to ask also why did you quit your job I feel like a few blogs ago you said how much you loved it, I’m glad you found something better that you genuinely love.
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I have thought about it but I use my VSCO for all my special pictures! And lol! A lot of people do get engaged there which I already told him 😉 but we did! That was a lot of fun together but something I prefer to keep personal! And I quit for multiple reasons- overall it just wasn’t for me and I needed something different! Thank you so much!
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my husband and I went to Denver many many years ago and I had that same feeling – I looked at him and knew in that moment he was meant to be with me forever. We ended up getting married a year later and have been married 37 years come October. It warms my heart to see someone so young find the love of their life, means you have so much more time to spend making memories together.
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That makes me so unbelievably happy! I had that exact moment! Thank you so so much. I look forward to all the memories with him!
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I love hearing about your happiness !! do you think you guys will move in together soon?! Wedding soon !? Just so excited for your future together ! I’m sorry for sounding so lame but I just got out of a 5 year relationship and it makes me happy to see that people can find love again and it’s even better than the first time
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Thank you!! Moving in will be the next step but I’m not sure when!! Probably by 2021?? Maybe!! You’re not lame at all- I didn’t think I’d ever find my person so I hope it calms you to know we all do !
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I’m not sure if my other comment posted ! But I saw Mumford and sons there and let me tell you IT CHANGED MY LIFE you will never be the same lol, I’ll try and get a list together of the fun stuff we did and the places we saw when we went. Who are you seeing next year !?
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WOW! I am SO jealous! They’re one of my top 5 favorites ! I would love to know what you did! The more advice the better. And we are seeing Kaleo with Matt Maeson.. Kaleo is our favorite band!
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this is more just an FYI but mikes ex was trash talking your trip the whole time you were gone…basically saying you’re trying to be her and you’d never do these things you’re just trying to impress mike….obviously very jealous and sad that she has choosen to act this way when you seem to be taking the high road
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She has us both blocked on social media so I’m not sure how that’s possible! I have never had an encounter with and she has no reason to dislike either of us! Some people have a hard time being happy for others but I don’t worry about it. We are happy and that’s all that matters
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excited for your blog with manmeat! Any hints on what it will be about ?
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Just a little question and answer and maybe a video of us talking! Haven’t decided the entirety of it yet!
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That would be awesome ! Reading your blog I feel like your friend I know you so well lol so it will be nice to hear And learn more from the man Who makes you so happy !
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I love that! And you will get to know him more! Everyone who meets him loves him so I’m sure you will too!
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I follow your blog and as a male reader I can tell you it’s the perfect mixture between good information and the girly stuff lol. I’m a dad of two girls and I know all about the drama of relationships and for someone to post on your blog about nonsense is ridiculous. my daughter dealt with the same shit from insecure girls, just because she’s blocked or you blocked her doesn’t mean her friends are not sharing all the gossip. It’s a shame your generation is so mean. Refreshing to see you handle it so well. Keep on going kid you seem like you got a great head on your shoulders
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That really makes me happy! I know guys might read too so I don’t wanna be too girly.. plus I’m not naturally girly so it works well! But it is sad to see how people are these days, at all ages. I try to not things like that get to me. I praise my mom and stepdad for how I am in these situations. I have a feeling your daughters will be set also! Thanks for the support, I truly appreciate it ❤️
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Do you have a Twitter ? I think you’d do well on there, with your advice and what not. when can we expect another awesome read from Lex
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I used to but ended up getting rid of two years ago! It just isn’t for me.. the next one should be out next week!
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I would love to see a blog about your friends and your favorite things to do with them, my friends and I are always looking for new ideas !
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I could do that!! I love my friends so I think I’m going to do a post about them in general soon!
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I think it’s so cool your boyfriend supports your blog and is willing to do pieces with you and let people into your lives – I did want to just ask one thing, do you ever get fearful of something happening between you guys l. I just have a general fear of losing the one I love and it’s mainly because of my anxiety and I know you mentioned you had suffered from that as well, just looking for your outlook on things
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It is amazing that he’s so open! And of course! Any natural person has those general fears of losing the one they love. But our relationship is very strong and I don’t think anything will ever come between us!
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I followed your photographer on Instagram I hope you don’t mind I love her work and I am getting married next summer, do you plan on modeling more for them or was this a one time event ? I wasn’t sure if she hired you ! The pictures came out amazing
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Yay! Congratulations!! I’m definitely hiring them when I get married! They said they’re gonna reach out for us to model for them again! It was free on both ends 🙂
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awesome I’ll be excited to see more pictures when they are out from your shoot I just am obsessed with their work !
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if you had to describe yourself with 5 words or phrases what would you pick and why ?
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if you had to describe yourself with 5 words or phrases what would you pick and why
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Spontaneous – I am a spur of the moment person and get excited when I think of something to do on the spot.
Adventurous- I’ve loved the outdoors and exploring new places my whole life.
Loyal- To my friends and family. I never turn my back or talk bad about anyone in my life.
Honest- I never hold back even if it hurts. I take pride in being that way.
Emotional- I feel all my emotions very strongly. It is a strength and a weakness!
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I know I saw in other comments about doing YouTube videos, I think that’s an awesome idea your blogs are amazing but I think videos would be even better can interact with us a little more I just love your advice it’s helped me with so much
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I’m so glad I can help! I’m really thinking about starting it up. Thank you for support!
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I saw the kind workshop is doing more pop up photo shoots are you guys modeling for them? I am thinking about taking one wasn’t sure if you’d be back !
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If they need models I’m gonna tell them I can help again!! They are awesome!
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I met you once at a party with kyra, sad to see you guys are not as close anymore we used to all have fun together
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Some people outgrow each other and are only friends in certain stages of life! I will always cherish our memories but I unfortunately don’t see us ever being close again. The group of people I have been with over the last few years are my forever friends!
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any fun weekend plans ? I am looking for some fun ideas with my man
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Riverworks for date with my man and his friend and girlfriend then a birthday party for two of his friends tomorrow !!
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I just kinda put a list of things of random questions that I saw another blogger do and was hoping you’d want to answer them! I’m new around here so it would help me get to know you a little better!!
What’s your favorite thing about your family?
If you could change your relationship with a family member, would you? If so, with whom?
What’s your go-to drunk snack?
What’s your favorite way to spend a weekend?
What type of music are you into
Where’s the next place on your travel bucket list and why?
What’s your go-to guilty pleasure?
What’s one thing that can instantly make your day better ?
Do you have any pet peeves?
What song always gets you out on the dance floor?
What’s your favorite part of the workday?
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– My favorite thing is how young they all are, how close we are, and how they all truly care about my happiness.
– I would change my relationship with my real father.
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My favorite way to spend a weekend is either with friends drinking and hanging out outside or taking adventures with my man.
-Alternative rock, oldies, country, and edm are all tied!
-Montana because I’ve been wanting to go there since high school!
-My guilty pleasure is ice cream.
– One thing to instantly make my day better is either a nap or seeing my boyfriend.
-Pet peeves would be not closing the shower curtain, going to bed with dirty feet, and liars!
-Any song gets me out there! I love to dance
-Favorite part of my workday is chatting with patients or going home 🙂
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what a great read ! excited for the next blog —- do you have a schedule or just post whenever the timing feels right ?
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Thank you! And I just post whenever a feel I have a good one written! Since the next one is more a q and a with my boyfriend it’ll be soon!
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awesome look forward to reading and learning more about your love and how it has blossomed
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hoping to hear more from lexs letters soon, hope you had a wonderful time on your trip it looked beautiful and fulfilling let us know when you post again
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how has your new job been !? I know you mentioned it in previous posts, also need to tell you I am excited for the next blog I know you’re busy wish you had time to post more a week these are the best part of my days
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It is amazing ! I love it completely. My old job was terrible because of the corporation it was through. I’m going to try to post more! Thanks for the support !
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this was one of your best posts, I love learning about places I’ve never been but have always dreamed of visiting ! when can we expect another post ?
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Thank you so much! I am the same way!! When I travel more I’ll be sure to do another post! Another one should be coming this week!
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what advice would you give to someone who’s moving in with their boyfriend, we are taking the nest step and getting an apartment off Elmwood next month and I’m so obsessed with it I’m just nervous about changing our dynamic
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My advice would be to just go with the flow! Kind of living with mine taught me that you just have to learn each others quirks! Luckily manmeat and I are very similar in how we like our home. As always- communication is key especially when you’re taking a big step like this! Just think positive and think about being able to wake up to his face everyday!!
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How exciting that you guys have taken that next step ! did you guys get a place together ?
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It is exciting! It just happened so naturally. We did not yet! But that will hopefully be happening end of summer/fall
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can’t wait to see pics and read the blog about the move, I have a feeling you have a good sense of decorating and sense of style…hope you’ll write about the experience !
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Oh I will for sure!! Thank you so much!
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oh my god how exciting to hear you’ll be moving ! I can only assume a ring will be next HOW EXCITING !!!!
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I’m sure that won’t be for a bit but I don’t think either of us see ourselves with anyone else ever again!! Thank you!!
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have you been keeping up on working out? I was so inspired by your F word post, and I just lost my motivation the last few weeks now that bars are back open and life is kinda going back to normal wanted to know what kinda workouts you’ve been doing or diet you have been following just need some inspiration to start again lol
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I fell off track a little with vacation and then a few birthday parties but I actually just finished a workout! You just have to keep the end result in mind and that urge to be healthy. You got this! The hardest part is starting again then it becomes like 2nd nature again
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Are you doing any specific diet ? Or just kinda making better choices
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I never do a specific diet! I just eat low carb, no sugary drinks, and a lot of water!
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Do you and manmeat want kids ? See that happening anytime soon?
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Yes we do! And nooo not for at least 3 years!
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When do you hoped to be married by ? I’ll be 27 in December I just don’t know what the right age is
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I hope by the time I’m 25 or 26! I’ll be 24 in November. I think it all depends on the relationship though. There shouldn’t be a set age
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Did you put any more thought into doing a YouTube page or if your next blog will have a video in it of you and your boyfriend ? I was telling someone at work about how much I love your blog and hopefully she will start reading !!
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I’m still considering it! Maybe after the holiday I will start working on it!! Thank you for the support !
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I saw Emily post they need another couple on July 18th ! You guys should do it !!
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Awh I saw too but unfortunately manmeat and I are super booked up that weekend!
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What a bummer !! Are you doing anything fun!?
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Yes! Saturday we have two different things for his friends and Sunday we have family stuff on my side!
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Your life seems like so much fun always something to do and something going on no wonder you don’t have time to blog !!
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where did you get your clothes from for the photo shoot !? I’m obsessed with that shirt
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Thank you! And I don’t remember honestly.. I got it so long ago!! I’m sorry!
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awesome read, hope you are having an awesome week. Can’t wait for the next piece and your next adventure
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Colorado Springs was my favorite part of my recent trip. Wish I could upload photos on here for you to see ! Make sure you swim in the springs if you get the chance, awesome blog can’t wait to read more. Hopefully have something new from you soon?
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hope you are having a great week, do you know when the next blog will be out ?
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Friday!
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What are your tips for getting over a heartbreak ? I am struggling today
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Mine would be that it happened for a reason and there’s someone else out there for you that won’t break your heart. It takes time to heal but it’s all worth it. Keep your head up
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this might sound dumb but what does it feel like to be in love ? I’ve never had a serious relationship or boyfriend for that matter I’m 23 and I just haven’t found “the one” I just wish I could understand what it feels like
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I wish I could describe it perfectly but it’s impossible until you find it! I’ve never been in love until I met manmeat and he said the same thing! It’s just different, it feels different. It feels like happiness in ever simple thing and never feeling misunderstood. You’re always on the same wavelength and you can’t imagine a moment in life without that person
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that sounds like a fairytale I can’t wait to share that feeling with someone one day, how long have you guys been together now ?
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It really is! And it’ll be 7 months of dating but I met him almost a year ago!
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what are some of your favorite things to do with your boyfriend ?
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Anything and everything !! In our free time when corona isn’t a thing we like hiking and going to new places, I love getting food and drinks from a place we’ve never been, watching the sunset, having Netflix binges, just everything !
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I am in love with your blog I really hope you do make a YouTube channel I think you could help so many people with your advice and your tips and what not I am pushing for you to make that next step !
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Thank you so much!! I’m still trying to decide if that’s something I’m interested in!
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I know you mentioned fixing things with your dad would you be willing to write a blog about that issue and relationship ? If it’s too personal I understand. I don’t have a relationship with my dad so I understand it’s something some people just don’t want to speak about
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Unfortunately that’s one issue that I just don’t want to put out into the world right now! The people closest to me know the story and the situation and maybe if we ever meet one on one or have a private convo I could give you some advice! It’s a tough situation and I’m sorry you’re in it. Thankfully my stepdad and I are super close
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I know you’re a huge Harry Potter fan they announced that wegmans is going to carry a beer that tastes like butter beer, I wasn’t sure if you’ve ever been to Harry Potter world in Orlando if you haven’t GO!!! it’s amazing but this beer will change your life
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I went there the first year it opened but haven’t been back since! I’m trying to go there soon. That’s sounds amazing!! I can’t wait to try it! Thanks for letting me know!
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I saw Emily posted more picutes please tell me the album is done 😍😍😍
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Not yet!! They took soooo many and have other paying customers to take care of first! I’m being patient because I know it’ll be worth it!
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I can’t wait to read tomorrow’s blog ! Do you have a time frame when it will be up?
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Anything exciting going on this weekend for the fourth ? I’m trying to find things to do with my friends but covid ruined a lot of our plans
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Awh I’m sorry! But yes- we are hanging out with my family tomorrow then party hopping a few of his friends parties!
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Hopefully a new blog will come out so I’ll have some entertainment tonight !
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when you go back next year go to Mountain Shadows Restaurant – it’s near Colorado Springs. It’s more breakfast foods but it was AMAZING when we went. I believe we made reservations but just call when it gets closer if you guys wanted to try it ! Just an idea
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any news on when your next post will be coming out ?
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how long did the hike take it looked beautiful! can’t wait to read more
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Didn’t mean to seem annoying with my comment, just excited to read more from you
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are you done blogging ? I saw that you’re taking a social media break, but your writing has helped me so much with stuff I’m going through wondering if you’ll be back. Hope you’re feeling better xo
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I am not done! was just taking a step back until I got back on track.. you will be hearing from me soon! Thank you for the support!
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so glad to hear ! hope you’re enjoying the new job and manmeat can’t wait to hear soon
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I sure am!! Both are still going well ❤️
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are you feeling any better, obviously I know anxiety you’ll never be completely 100% but just overall wanted to check how you’re feeling lately and send you my well wishes and hope to read another blog soon
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A bit better! Every day is a new start and I’m trying to keep my mind positive. It can be very hard but I’m managing! Thank you so so much!
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has it been easier this time around going through it having your boyfriend to help ?
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Oh yes! He is so supportive and the best significant other I’ve had through an anxiety episode!
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