Happy hump day readers!!
Feeling blessed to be writing this on my steps outside of my room in the sun! Buffalo is getting lucky with this spring weather and I am loving it.
I’m still pregnant as can be, patiently waiting for Stella to decide she wants to meet everyone who’s waiting for her!
Being 39 weeks pregnant is noooo joke. I huff and puff during every physical movement, have to pee every half hour, and constantly think of how labor is gonna feel. A lot of people keep asking me if I’m afraid to give birth and all I can say is that I’m going in with an open mind. Sure, I obviously know the pain is going to be like nothing I’ve ever experienced but I’m just trying to keep positive thoughts coming and not worry about anything until I’m in the moment.
I am excited that my mom can now be with Michael and I at the hospital!! I was so content with it being just Michael and I but there’s nothing like having your mom with you during life changing moments.
So now we’re just waiting…
While we’ve been waiting for our new arrival we have been house hunting! Which took a turn for the better but that’s all I can say for now!!
All these big changes are slightly terrifying to handle all at once but trying not to focus on how big of a change it is really helps me. Looking at all the positives things is the most exciting. Knowing I get to watch my sister be the best aunt, watch Stella get so much love, living under one roof with my soulmate, and starting an entire new chapter of my life.
Some days I look in the mirror and think “holy shit, you’re gonna be someone’s MOM”. I can’t even fathom that thought but I guess I’ll be taking it head on!
Michael has been the biggest support through everything- the restless nights, me complaining 24/7, and endless hunger. OH and Covid-19….
That’s right, covid hit us with just enough time to make us freak out. Michael became a super-spreader (on accident) and gave it to a bunch of friends and my mom. I got it from my mom but by the grace of God no one got bad symptoms. I just had head congestion that made me feel like my ears were completely full and extreme fatigue. I will tell ya, pregnancy fatigue and covid fatigue make for one hell of a sleepy Lex. Now that we’re all out of quarantine and don’t have symptoms life is back to normal!
Thankfully this covid hit us all after my baby shower!
It was the most perfect day and it was overwhelming to realize how many amazing people we (Michael, Stella, and I) have in our lives.
From my aunts, to my grandma, and my Mom, with Michaels mom, and even the men in my family- that day wouldn’t have gone as smoothly without any of them.
It is such a nice feeling that we have so many people to rely on and have supporting us always.
Stella is gonna have the greatest family and soooo many extra aunts and uncles she has no idea!
I intend for this to be my last blog before Stella comes and probably won’t write for a bit after she’s here! There’s going to be lots going on in life but I will continue to write once everything slows down a bit.
Next time I write I’ll be a momma!
How WILD is that.
Until then…
xoxo, Lex.
Lex's Letters 
your mom can be in the room with you guys !? That’s awesome I was hoping things would change for you !!
Any predictions on what day you think she’s going to come ?
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Yes!! We are all so excited! It changed just in time!!
I think she’s gonna come the 11th or 12th!
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any fun plans this weekend or just hanging out till Stella decides to join us earth side !
Has Michael been spending the night with you incase you go into labor in the middle of the night LOL
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Michael has his diaper party tomorrow so I’m hanging out with friends while all the men do that!! Other than that I’ll be patiently waiting around!
And yes! He’s usually over anyways but he’s here almost every night. Thankfully he’s not too far even when he’s at his parents or at work!
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do you have time to answer some questions about you and Michael ?
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Yes!
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Do you want to get married? Do you have a dream wedding or dream ring ? Have you guys discussed it?
What do you think the most important element is in maintaining a relationship?
What is your favorite thing to do on a date together ?
What is the most romantic place you’ve ever visited?
What’s the most romantic thing he’s ever done for you ?
What is your favorite quality about him?
What about your favorite physical feature ?
Do you think he will be a good dad ? Do you think he’s going to be the good cop or bad cop when it comes to Stella ?
What is a song that reminds you of him or your relationship?
Does he get along with your family and friends ?
What is one thing you do now that you didn’t do before you knew him?
When did you say you loved each other how long into the relationship ?
Did you wait for a while before you had sex or was it an instant connection ?
Do you guys have good chemistry in the bedroom ?
When’s the last time you guys laughed together and what was it about ?
What are you most excited to do together with Stella ?
Do you guys travel a lot or more home bodies ?
What’s the weirdest thing you’ve done together?
Is there anything he does that makes you mad?
Have you ever had a bad fight ? If so how do you resolve it ? Or resolve small issues ?
What vacations do you guys have planned with each other ?
What is his favorite color
Favorite food ?
Favorite sport ?
What is your best memory together ?
What do you think he would say in regards to his favorite moment or memory with you ?
Is he a soft side guy or a tough man ?
How is he different from anyone else you’ve ever dated ?
How would you rate your first kiss together ?
Were you nervous to make a move ?
First time you guys had a sleepover, your house or his ? How did it go ?
How was meeting his parents ? How did he handle meeting yours ?
What kind of parents do you hope to be for Stella ?
What does he do to make you feel constantly loved and assured ?
Do your zodiac signs match up to be compatible ?
What is one thing you admire most about him?
Describe your relationship/love story in 3 sentences
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Oh yes! I know he’s who I’m going to marry. I don’t really have a dream anything to be honest. I know whatever he picks I’ll love! We’ve discussed it lightly before!
I think being each other’s best friend and being open with one another always is essential
We love going for a nice nature walk or go somewhere new for food! We’re very simple
The cabin we stayed in for our anniversary was the most romantic.
His hand written cards are what I consider the most romantic
I love his personality the most
I love his lips, and muscles ; and butt. I can’t pick just one hahaha
He’s gonna be an incredible dad and I already know he’s gonna be the good cop
Pushing up daisies by brothers Osborne !
I think my family and friends like him more than they like me … yes they get along amazing !!
I definitely drink more water !
We said it after a month of dating
Nope, it was an instant connection !
We have amazing chemistry… hence how Stella got here !!
We laughed together last night about his parents cat
I think we’re both excited to take her on adventures together
We love traveling and can’t wait to get back to it!
Last night… he closed his eyes and tried to guess where I had a laser pointer on him! Hahahaa we are so weird together
YES. He plays with his pop socket and it drives me insane
We’ve never fought terribly. It was more of a misunderstanding. We rarely argue. We just always talk it out and it’s amazing because I’ve never had a mature man during arguments
We have quite a few actually! Colorado, Florida, Montana, and a few others in the works!
He doesn’t really have a favorite but I think blue if he had to pick, he loves burgers, and he loves to play and watch football
We have a lot of amazing memories. I think both of ours would be something to do with our trip to Colorado
He a hugeeee softie!
He is completely different from anyone I’ve ever dated! He’s the most outgoing; levelheaded; super close with his family; best communicator; and so open with his emotions with me!
Our first kiss was 10947288/10 lol and neither of us were nervous at all.
It was at my house! We were both tipsy and we snuck him in my door off my patio to my room.. it’s a great memory
Both meetings went perfect! It was instantly a good feeling for both of us.
I hope that we are like our parents. We were both raised amazing. Our parents cared enough but didn’t hover
He always tells me. I love it
Our zodiac signs are actually not compatible at all ! One thing I don’t agree with lol
I admire his calmness
It would take a lot more than 3 sentences!
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Do you take Stella on those vacations or are those just for you guys ?
How old will she be ? Are you scared to travel with kids or do you think it will be harder ?
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We are not leaving her behind!!! She’s included on all these vacations! Her first vacation will be my family Florida trip in October, she will be 6 months. I’m not nervous to travel with a baby at all!
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Meant to add in the first comment target is having a huge baby sale I just grabbed my sister a ton of stuff ! She’s due in May and we got a ton of last minute things if you needed anything ☺️☺️
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Thank you so much!! We’re actually all set for now though!
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Do you have time for questions or are we possibly in labor !!?
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Not in labor! I have time!
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1. If You Had Three Wishes, What Would You Wish For?
2. What’s The Most Beautiful Place You’ve Ever Seen?
3. What Was Your Fondest Memory Of High School?
4. What’s Your Favorite TV Show?
5. What’s The Strangest Thing In Your Refrigerator?
6. Have You Ever Been To A Five Star Resort?
7. What’s The Funniest Way You’ve Ever Broken The Law?
8. What’s Your Favorite Sports Team?
9. If You Could Trade Lives With Someone, Who Would It Be?
10. What’s Your Favorite Movie?
11. If You Could Interview A Famous Person, Who Would You Choose?
12. If Your Food Is Bad At A Restaurant, Would You Say Something ?
13. What Are Your Dreams And Ambitions?
14. If You Had The World’s Attention For 30 Seconds, What Would You Say?
15. If You Were To Play A Song You Love Right Now, What Would It Be?
16. Would You Rather Look Like A Potato, Or Feel Like A Potato?
17. What Is In Your Fridge Right Now?
18. What Have You Learned About Life From Kids?
19. What Do You Hope Your Deceased Relative Would Say About You If They Saw You Now?
20. If You Could Change Your Name, What Would You Change It To?
21. What’s The Strangest Thing That You’ve Ever Fallen In Love With?
22. If You Were Invited To Attend Hogwarts, Which Hogwarts House Would You Choose?
23. What Were The Highlights Of Your Childhood?
24. What’s The Stupidest Thing You’ve Ever Done?
25. Spontaneity Or Stability?
26. What’s The Funniest Movie You’ve Ever Seen?
27. When Did You Last Meet A Stranger You Thought You’d Never Meet Again?
28. Do You Save Or Spend?
29. What’s Your Worst Habit?
30. Do they like to take a stand or just let things go?
31. What’s Your Favorite Song?
32. Would You Rather Be Able To Control Time, Or Be Able To Know What Other People Are Thinking?
33. What’s Your Favorite Pizza Topping
34. What’s The Smartest Thing You’ve Ever Done?
35. Will you ever take Stella to Disney or do you think Disney is lame ?
36. Does Stella like chicken nuggets or is she not a fan?
37. Have you been eating healthy your pregnancy or indulging on things if you crave them?
38. What’s your plan for losing weight after Stella ( you look amazing either way don’t take offense to that question ! ) us new mamas just want to learn some tips and tricks of what works for other girls.
39. Can you share your labor story with us once she’s here ?
40. How was Michael’s diaper party ?
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1- id wish for a long, healthy life for everyone I love, cure the world of cancer, get rid of my anxiety lol
2- the Rocky Mountains
3- probably my entire senior year, it was great
4- my favorite tv show is either the last kingdom or sons of anarchy
5- probably my kombucha
6- I have been to a five star resort!
7- when I went through a red light on purpose yesterday lol
8- Buffalo Bills
9- I’d trade lives with my little sister
10- I have many favorite movies: Harry Potter, stand by me, Armageddon
11- probably Brad Pitt or Emma Watson
12- I never say anything about my meal bevause I’m not a picky eater so I’ve never had to say something lol
13- to be successful and see the world and have a large family
14- that were all the same on the inside and if we could all understand that we could have peace
15- it would be milk and honey by nombe
16- feel like a potato, which I already do hahahah
17- a whole lot of food because my Mom keeps it stocked
18- that there’s so much beauty in simple things and to not take it too seriously
19- that they were proud of how far I’ve come
20- probably Charlotte lol
21- hmmm I’m not sure
22- well you can’t choose your hogwarts house! I’m a gryffindor though
23- so many things
24- scraped my windshields with a vodka bottle to get snow off
25- a mix of both
26- borat
27- yesterday in East Aurora at lunch
28- save save save
29- probably overthinking lol
30- It depends. Most of the time I let things go
31- I have far too many to just name one
32- oh jeez this is tough. I think control time though
33- pizza sauce hahaha I’m plain
34- There’s a few things!
35- I’ll take her there once or twice but not more than that lol
36- she loves chicken nuggets finally, she didn’t at first!
37- I’ve been doing a good mix!
38- no offense taken! But I plan to do what I’ve always done. Eating healthy is number one and then I plan to work out 4-5 days a week again!
39- yes! I already planned on it!
40- I guess it was a great time! He got real drunk and we got lots of diapers so we’re both happy! We have so much love and support it’s incredible
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what are the top ten things that you got that you’d recommend every expecting mama get ? Could be stuff to help pregnancy or new baby or even random things
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1. Ginger supplements for upset stomach
2. A good diaper bag!
3. A jogging stroller if you think you’ll be outside
4. A baby brezza (haven’t used it yet obviously but I know I’ll love it)
5. A good coconut lotion for the body!
6. A pregnancy pillow (saved me so many nights)
7. A good water bottle
8. Lots of swaddles!
9. Glass bottles for the baby
10. A good partner 😂
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any advice on how to get along with your in laws ? I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and in the beginning his parents loved me and now I feel like for some reason they don’t. Maybe I am just looking to deep but just unsure what to do.
How did you become close with yours ? Do you text them often ? Hang out without Michael ? Just trying to think of ideas without making things worse
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It really should be more of a natural thing . I wish I could say there was something specific I’ve done but we’ve gotten along right off the bat! I think being able to have good conversations and making an effort to see them helps! I do text Michaels mom quite often and I consider us pretty close!
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happy almost due date !!
what happenes if she doesn’t come tomorrow ??
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Thank you! And I have an appt tomorrow if I don’t go into labor by then ! I’ll have more info after that appt
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how exciting ! Do you have time for your last set of questions before you become a mama !!
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I do !
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have you been doing anything to make labor happen or just letting her come when it’s her time?
what was the best part of pregnancy and what was the worst ?
Is there anything you’ll miss about having her in your belly ?
are you getting nervous or excited ?
Is Michael working till she’s here ? How does “dad leave” work ?
Will anyone be able to visit in the hospital or just Michael ?
what will be her announcement outfit ?
what about her coming home outfit ?
any plans for birth photos or like newborn shots ? I’m not sure if hospitals still do them !
How much weight total did you gain with her ? Did you have any swelling or have you been lucky?
Have you worked out at all while pregnant ?
What are you doing to pass the time till she arrives?
When do you think she’s going to come ? What about Michael ?
what will be the first thing you enjoy post pregnancy that you haven’t been able to do the last nine months ?
Will you be showing her off or keeping her off social media ?
What has been the best part of this experience with Michael?
Has this made you guys want more kids ?
Any updates on your house situation ?
What is the most surprising fact you’ve learnt about yourself during pregnancy ?
What kinda formula are you doing with her ?
What about labor scares you the most ?
Will you get an epidural ?
What is the best and worst advice you have received regarding pregnancy and becoming a mom ?
Any recommendations you’d give to newly pregnant mamas ?
What’s your favorite outfit you got Stella ?
What toy or item did you receive that you’re most excited for her to use ?
Do you think she will be a good baby?
Were you and Michael good ?
Will you be taking turns during the middle of the night feedings and changes ?
What are you most proud of Michael for in the last nine months ? Do you think you love him more now if that’s even possible ?
Do you think he got you a push present ?
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1. I’ve been drinking red raspberry tea and bouncing on my exercise ball!
2. Best part was feeling her kick, worst was the morning sickness
3. I’ll miss the excitement of not knowing when she’s gonna come
4. I’m a good mix of both! More excited though
5. Yep! He’s working till I’m in labor. He gets two weeks paid and then more weeks with less pay if he’d like to stay longer with us!
6. Michael and my mom will be there since I get two people to have with me
7. I haven’t decided on her announcement outfit yet
8. Same as above!
9. I’m gonna have my best friends come take some when we’re home!
10. I gained around 25-30 lbs! No swelling at all!
11. I worked out in the beginning but it got tough so I stopped about three months ago
12. I’ve just been doing stuff to get ready for her- do laundry, clean all her bottles, little things! And relaxxxxx a lot
13. We both have absolutely no idea!
14. I’m super excited to be able to workout as normal and drink beer!
15. I’ll be posting her a little but not a lot
16. Everything honestly. It showed mostly that I picked the perfect person to have by my side and to be a father!
17. Yes! We already know we’re going to have more
18. Yes! But I can’t say what right now!
19. I’ve learnt that I’m anemic and that I can handle more than I thought
20. Were not sure on formula yet
21. I think the pain scares me the most
22. I don’t want one so I’m going to go as long as I can without one
23. I’m not really sure ! I’ve received a lot
24. Don’t feel bad for resting! It’s a lot of work
25. Omg so many!
26. I’m excited to see her in our carrying backpack
27. I sure hope she is! Michael and I both were
28. Yes! But when he goes back to work I don’t expect him to get up often
29. I’m most proud of him for really taking initiative in learning about what I’m going through and what to expect! I didn’t think it was possible but I definitely do!
30. I don’t think so because I never even knew what that was 😂 I don’t expect a gift for pushing out our babe! It’s a normal part of life
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haven’t heard much so I assume that means Stella has entered the world ! we can’t wait to hear all about her entrance 💛💛💛💛
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She sure is here!! We are enjoying time with her!!
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hope the first few days with Stella have been amazing and she’s being a good girl for her parents !!
can’t wait to hear all about her….enjoy this time as you enter the best chapter of your life
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They really have been! she is so perfect!! Thank you so much!
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so happy to hear that she’s here and doing well !! How have you been ? Mentally physically ? I feel like a lot of people forget to ask the mama how they are because they get wrapped up in the cute baby !!
Did you end up having an epidural ?
Will you share your labor and birth story ?
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Thank you so much! I’m doing amazing in all aspects! It’s so hard to not always hold her.
I did have an epidural after I got to 7cm but it didn’t kick in by the time I had her (which was 30 min later) ! I plan on doing a blog about the whole experience in a week or two!
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hope you’re doing amazing and enjoying your first week as a mama !!
are you excited for your first Mother’s Day ? Any plans ?
I am excited for the next blog to hear about your birthing journey !
Congrats again Lex !!
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Thank you so much! It is AMAZING and indescribable.
I’m super excited! We’re doing brunch with my family as we always do then enjoying the day with them and Michaels family.
Thank you so much! The blog will be out within the next few weeks!
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do you have time to answer a few questions about Stella ♥️
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Yes!
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1. How is she doing so far ?
2. Do you guys have a routine or schedule ? Or just letting her tell you what she wants ?
3. Did you find a formula that works?
4. How is the baby breezea!?
5. Are you guys getting a lot of rest or is she a night owl?
6. Who do you think she looks like like ? You or Michael ?
7. Did you both cry when she came out ? What was the first thing Michael said to you when you both saw her?
8. Has your family met her yet or not due to covid caution?
9. What has been the best moment so far of having her home?
10. Does she have any nicknames yet or sticking with Stella ?
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1. She’s an amazing baby so far
2. Newborns aren’t able to have schedules so we’re just going with what she needs right now
3. Yes!
4. The baby brezza is a life saver
5. She’s a night owl until 1 am just like she was in my belly! But we get sleep after that!
6. She is more Michael! She just has my nose so far
7. Michael bawled his eyes out more than me because I had pain meds but I still cried! He told me she was perfect
8. Yes! Almost all of my family has. Just one set of aunts and uncles left
9. Just being able to stare at her all day
10. She already has sooo many! I call her ‘Stell’ a lot
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How many houses did you guys tour and bid on before getting the home you talked about in this post ?
I’m on bid 34 and I’m losing hope hahah might just stop and wait for the market to calm down, any tips or tricks ?
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We toured about 15 and bid on about 6-7! It’s intense right now and frustrating but just remember that it’ll work out when it’s meant to! Don’t give up is my only tip because that’s what we did!
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so happy you guys found your forever home !! are you nervous to move with a newborn !?
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Thank you! We don’t think it’s our forever home but we will be there for a while!! And I’m not nervous at all actually. We have so much help and the move isn’t far at all
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thanks for being so open and honest with us about all aspects of your life, so refreshing to see someone so young have their head on their shoulders and is a genuinely good person. Stella is so lucky to have a mom like you, you deserve all the happiness that is coming your way can’t wait to see the new house and hear about stellas birth and your first few weeks of being a mama
Is the house a fixer upper or is it exactly what you guys wanted ?
happy to hear you’ll be under one roof and have a place to build amazing memories with Stella
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Oh my gosh! That is so sweet of you! Thank you so so much! She is the perfect little girl already and I hope I can be the best for her!!
There are a few small things we have to do but nothing crazy! The most work will be landscaping honestly! We are so excited to have our own space to watch her grow!
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do you have time for questions today ?!
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Sure!
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1. How was your labor ? Long and painful or short and sweet?
2. How did you know you were in labor did your water break ?
3. How was your stay in the hospital with covid restrictions
4. How has it been being home with the baby?
5. What has been your favorite moment so far
6. What has been a lifesaver so far being a new mom?
7. How have you been feeling so far, hormones, healing and all that stuff
8. Kinda personal question, but since you’re not BF have your boobs gone down or are they painful ? I have such a fear of this
9. Has Michael been staying at your house every night or are you staying at his?
10. Did his parents cry when they met her ?
11. When do you guys go back to work? How will you handle being alone and how will he ?
12. Have you taken her anywhere yet or just kept her home?
13. Do you have a lot of help with Stella ?
14. How big is she ?
15. How has your relationship with Michael changed ?
16. Have you had any fights or disagreements since having Stella?
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1. It was short and painful !!
2. I actually got induced after going to my 40 week dr appt. my water broke while I was in the hospital
3. It didn’t even feel like there were any restrictions !
4. It has been amazing honestly
5. Waking up to Stella and Michael cuddling
6. Having a Baby Brezza so I don’t have to make bottles!
7. I’m pretty good, just a little sore!
8. They were painful for a day or two and have gotten a bit smaller! Nothing terrible though
9. He’s been here every night and every day! Has only left to go to the gym
10. Oh yes!
11. I don’t go back for a while. He goes back Wednesday. I think we will both be okay!
12. We’ve taken her to Michaels parents and my aunts for a family party!
13. We have SO much help
14. Right now she’s 7 lbs!
15. We’ve gotten so much closer
16. Nope no fights!
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when do you think we will hear the birth story ? we are all so excited to hear about it and how you’re adjusting to being a mama !!
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Probably this week!! Thank you!!! It’s been great so far and I can’t wait to tell you more!!
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would you be willing to post some pictures of you and Michael as children so we can see who Stella looks like ?
Who do you think she resembles so far as a new born ?
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I posted some on my vsco a while
Back! I can’t post photos over the phone so I’ll have to do it once I write the new blog! She definitely looks more like Michael right now
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how are you healing up ?
happy two weeks to Miss.Stella Rose!
Are you nervous at all for losing the baby weight ? My son is 8 months and I’m struggling to lose the last 10lbs I know I shouldn’t care because my body did an amazing thing but it’s really hard and weighing on my mental health. My stomach still looks flabby and stretched out 😭 just having a hard time accepting my body – any advice ? How’s your body snapping back ?
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I’m healing very well so far!!
I can’t believe she will be two weeks old tomorrow!!
And I’m not at all! I know what my body did is amazing and I won’t get discouraged solely for what I created! Thankfully I don’t have too much snapping back to do so it’s been easy so far and once I can work out again I know it’ll be great! Everyone’s body is different though and you just have to stay consistent!0
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You’re so lucky god blessed ya with a good body !!
can’t wait to hear and see all your progress and hard work pay off you’ll be one hot mama !
when is the new blog coming out ? Can’t wait to hear your experience….will we get to see a picture of Stella in the blog ?
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Hahaha he did not bless me! It takes work still!! But I do feel lucky still. I intend to be a MILF ASAP 😂
Blog will probably be out next week… life is very busy right now! And most likely!!
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once you do get a workout routine and diet plan would you be willing to share with us ? Show us progress pictures to give us chunky mamas some motivation hahaha
I know Stella doesn’t have a routine right now being so young but what does a day look like for you now being a new mama ?
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My progress pics probably won’t be too different but I will take some! Most of my weight I gained was in my thighs! I don’t even have a diet plan either, I just eat low carbs and sugars! My workout routine will vary but I can definitely share it!!
My day right now is just waking up and relaxing because I’m still healing and Michael is still home with us! Once he goes back to work and I’m healed I’ll have a routine for sure!
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can’t wait to see your journey to being a hot mom !! hopefully soon you’ll have a wedding to be in shape for 😉😉
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Hey I sure hope 🥰🥰
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would you be able to do some questions today ?
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Sure !
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1. Did you sleep last night?
2. What is your favourite meal now that you’re not pregnant have your tastes or cravings changed ?
3. It can be really hard transitioning to being a mom, how is that going for you?
4. Have you had a celebratory drink yet ?
5. It is common for new moms to go through the baby blues, have you had this at all?
6. If you are having a hard time, do you have people you ca turn to ?
7. What has been the most surprising thing about having her home that you didn’t expect ?
8. How will you handle Michael going back to work will you be doing the night shift changes and feedings ?
9. Are you nervous to let people meet her or are you feeling okay about covid and things like that
10. Are you excited to travel with Stella ?
11. Will you be taking her on hikes this summer ?
12. Is there anything you didn’t have before she was born that you’ve bought and now use that she’s here ?
13. When do you move into your new home ?
14. Will she be baptized ?
15. How often do newborns go to the doctor ?
16. What was the hardest thing about being pregnant for 9 months?
17. Can you explain the feeling of when she came out did you have an instant connection with her or did it take you a while to bond ?
18. Can you think of any good things you enjoyed during those 9 months?
19. In your opinion, were all the things you heard about childbirth accurate or way off.
20. Would you have handled childbirth differently if you could re-do it?
21. What would be your advice for someone who is about to have a baby?
22. What has been the hardest thing about being a mom?
23. Do you share any similarities with your child (Physical )?
24. What has been your favorite outfit she’s worn so far ? Do you change her a lot ?
25. What is something that having a child has taught you?
26. Did you imagine that you’d be a mom at the age that you became a mom?
27. What was your first meal after having Stella ?
28. How long till you’re able to have sex after having a baby ? Are you scared just the thought of it after pushing a big baby out scares me !
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1. Yes! 7ish hours
2. Pretty much the same! I crave cold salads right now
3. It’s been pretty easy. A lot of people say I was born to be a mom and I think I was
4. I have had many!
5. I haven’t had them yet but sometimes it can take a few weeks so hopefully I don’t!
6. I have so many people to turn to
7. How much she pees!!
8. I’ve been doing most of them already! I wouldn’t expect him to get up when he has to work
9. She’s already met tons of people. I just tell everyone to wash their hands and no kisses to her face
10. I’m so excited to show her the world!
11. Of course!
12. Not really!
13. Hopefully by June
14. Yes she will
15. Once at one week, two weeks, one month, two months, then yearly
16. Not being able to feel energized
17. It was instant. The most insane thing I’ve ever experienced
18. I enjoyed so much of it. Especially feeling her kick and Michael talking to her
19. Very accurate
20. Nope! It went great and wouldn’t change a thing
21. To go with the flow
22. Not having enough time in a day
23. Big hands, feet, sensitive skin and nose!
24. I change her twice a day! She has a dinosaur outfit I love
25. It has taught me patience already
26. I did not! I thought I’d be older
27. I ate some crackers till we ordered breakfast in the morning and I had oatmeal and fruit !
28. I have to wait another month. I’m a little scared but I’m SO ready 😂
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I went to a baby shower last weekend and this one guest got the new mama a book called letters to my daughter, it’s so sweet it has different prompts and you can give the book to Stella at 18,21 or whenever you want
I know you enjoy writing thought maybe you’d like the idea, I believe she said she purchased on Amazon
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That’s amazing! I’m gonna look into it!! Thank you so much!
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How was your first few days being home with Stella without Michael’s help?
Do you miss him a lot while he gone ? Send him hundreds of photos of Stella haha ?
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It’s been great honestly! She’s having some tummy issues but It’s manageable .. I miss him as much as I normally do! I send him aooo many snaps of her. He comes home on break to eat with us though so it’s nice!!
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I am excited to read about your experience and first few weeks as a new mom. I am due in august and I am scared and nervous and all the emotions haha. Will be nice to hear it from someone my age on what to expect and actually hear the truth these famous bloggers on Instagram make it seem like a walk in the park and I know that’s not always the case, thanks for keeping it so real with us on all levels and aspects of your life.
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Well congratulations !!! But I will be as raw and real as I can because it definitely is not as easy as some make it seem!! Thank you so much- stay tuned for the blog!
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when do you think the new blog will be out ?
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Next week! Still adjusting to mom life so I don’t have much free time right now
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I need advice, how do you deal with someone who constantly wants to compete with you. I have a friend who’s a close friend but now I’ve been trying to keep my distance, I dyed my hair and then she dyed her hair. I posted a picture of my trip on the beach so then she posted a very similar picture while we were on the same trip. It drives me nuts and I feel bad saying something because I hate drama and confrontation have you ever had this happen or have any advice on what to do ?
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All you can do is accept it as a compliment ! I have had someone do this but not a friend so it was very odd. Some people just are not happy with themselves and they like what they see in your life. In my opinion there’s no need to confront them because they will deny it anyways! Drama is the worst so try to avoid it and just take it for what it is! Imitation is a form of flattery ✨
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Do you have time for some questions this beautiful Saturday ?
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Yes!
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What is the funniest thing you have ever done or has happened to you?
Have you ever done something extremely weird and stupid for someone?
What is the wildest fantasy that you ever had and with whom?
If you could actually speak your mind, what would be the thing people would hear the most from you?
Have you ever been caught in an embarrassing situation?
If you could be invisible for a day, what and all would you do?
If you could be someone else for a day, who would you be and why?
What was the last crazy adventure you went on?
What’s your favorite time of year and why?
What do you like most about yourself?
Have you had a hard time accepting your new body ?
Do you have your flat tummy back yet? Always so jealous of how good you looked !!
Is there something that you used to do that you loved, but you’ve now stopped doing?
Is there anyone Stella hasn’t met yet that you are excited for her to finally meet ?
How did all your bffs react to meeting her ?
What does a normal weekend look like now that you’re a mama ?
IF YOU COULD ASK A SINGLE PERSON ONE QUESTION, AND THEY HAD TO ANSWER TRUTHFULLY, WHO AND WHAT WOULD YOU ASK?
WHAT’S SOMETHING THAT OVERWHELMS YOU?
HOW HAVE YOUR PRIORITIES CHANGED OVER TIME?
Are you guys still getting a tattoo for Stella ? Can you share the idea I know you mentioned in the last blog or so ago you were doing matching ones with Michael !
When was the last time you cried, was it happy or sad and why ?
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– oh jeez, there’s quite a few things
– many times…
– probably something with my boyfriend that I won’t reveal
– to stop trying to look cool for social media and to be themselves
– yes, a few times
– I’d go into the White House
– probably Emma Watson because she has an awesome life
– it’s been a while
-august-November, the weather is perfect
-my honesty and the way I don’t judge anyone
-not at all! I know it did amazing things and will go back to how it once looked
– not yet since it’s only been 2 weeks. But I’m getting closer! Thank you!
-yes I’ve stopped reading as much as I used to
– yes! A few of my best friends- Andrea, Mindy, and my friend Ryan and his family, Michaels grandparents and a few of his friends!
-a few of them cried but they all loved her so much!
– a lot of relaxing and tending to Stella since shes not on a schedule yet but we’ve been going on walks and getting of the house when we can
– I’d ask Joe Biden what the hell he’s doing
– not having enough time to do everything I want
-oh yes. I used to want to be with friends and party more and now I wanna be successful and have a good life with Michael and Stella
– yes we are! And I’m not revealing till we get them!
– the other night when Stella wasn’t feeling well!
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Do you have time for Monday questions ?
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Sure!
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Do you yell at the TV? When people are being stupid or when watching sports or both?
If you have any sisters or brothers, what was the meanest thing that you have ever done to them?
What was the craziest thing that you did as a kid?
Where would you like to live if you could live anywhere in the world?
What is something that is really out of your comfort zone?
Would you ever eat bugs?
What is your favorite part about your new house ?
What will Stellas nursery theme be ?
Would you ever go bungee jumping or rock climbing?
Do you get upset when you lose at a sport or competition?
What was the worst meal that you ever made or eaten?
Did you ever belong to a secret club?
Did you ever play a prank on someone that got you in trouble?
What was the stupidest thing that you ever stole from someone?
What horror movie really freaked you out as a kid? What about now?
Would you rather time travel to the past or to the future?
What alcoholic drink don’t you drink anymore because you got sick from it?
What really stupid movie always makes you laugh?
If you were able to influence people to do or act in a certain way, what would be your first instinct to have them do?
Would you be embarrassed if someone looked at your Google search results? elaborate..lol
What is your favorite fine dining restaurant? What do you like to order?
What items would you grab if you had to leave your home for an emergency?
Have you ever collected anything? Do you still?
What makes you unique?
Do you like to receive flowers? What are your favorites?
Was there any time that you were almost arrested?
What social media apps do you love the most?
How often are you on your phone?
What sports do you enjoy the most to either watch or participate?
What were your favorite classes in school or college?
Have you ever taken classes just for fun?
What do you miss the most right now?
Did you ever make a Tic Tok video?
Have you ever been backstage at a concert? Who did you meet?
What is your favorite sweet treat?
Did you ever think that you were born in the wrong era?
What was the most memorable vacation that you have taken? Who did you take it with?
What makes you jealous?
Who in your life do you always make time for?
Have you ever spied on someone?
What is the best part of your day?
What is the hardest part of being isolated during the pandemic ?
What is the last random act of kindness that you did for someone?
How are you in high pressure situations?
Name a quote that has meaning for you.
What was one of the best experiences of your life?
What was one of the hardest experiences or your life?
What was the last thing that made you very anxious?
How has your anxiety been with your fluctuating hormones ?
What part of politics do you hate the most?
If you could only eat 3 foods for a year, what would you choose?
What fruit do you hate?
What do you tend to lose the most often?
Do you believe in horoscopes?
Did you do anything new or learn anything new during the pandemic ?
Are you a romantic?
What do you like to enjoy the most when you are in nature?
What is something that you find really interesting?
Are you a planner or are you more of a spontaneous person?
What noise drives you nuts?
Do you think that you generally have good or bad luck?
When you are angry what is the best way to help you feel better?
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1- I only yell during sports!
2- I used to tell them they were adopted lol
3- I wasn’t very crazy as a kid!
4- I’d live in Switzerland
5- skateboarding lol
6-never unless I had no other food
7- my favorite part is the yard and porch!
8- outdoorsy / floral
9- I would love to do both
10- nope I’m not competitive lol
11- a smoothie I got the other day lol
12- I never belonged to any secret club
13- I don’t think so
14- tweezers
15- Halloween then, Halloween now lol
16- rather travel to the past
17-vodka tea
18- step brothers
19- have them be honest always
20- not at all lol I google myself often
21- I don’t go to many fine dining places
22- wallet and phone charger lol
23- I collect postcards
24- my ability to drive standard and my ability to not judge anyone
25-I love flowers. I like different kinds, not roses
26-never
27- I love Instagram and Snapchat the most
28- a few hours a day
29- I love watching football, playing volleyball
30- English
31- never have taken anything for fun lol
32- I miss concerts ! But finally got tickets to one this summer!
33- yes I have
34- I’ve been backstage multiple times actually lol I’ve met Florida Georgia line, James Arthur, and a few people from different bands at kerfuffle
35- dark chocolate
36- my family vacation every October
37- seeing people in beautiful places
38- anyone in my family and my 6 best friends and anyone who really needs someone
39- I don’t think so
40- seeing Stella and Michael next to me
41- I don’t mind being isolated sometimes ! The hardest part was not being able to travel
42- gave a waitress a large tip
43- I get sweaty but keep my cool mentally lol
44- “not all who wander are lost” and “a smooth sea never made a skilled sailor”
45- having Stella
46- losing my grandma
47- Stella not pooping lol
48- anxiety has been great!
49- how much they’re talked about
50- peanut butter, strawberries, salmon
51- honeydew : only fruit I hate
52- my remotes for the tv
53- I do
54- nope lol
55- I am a romantic
56- the sites and the sounds
57- outer space
58- I’m a mix
59- people smacking their lips
60- generally good
61- going for a run usually!
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can’t wait to hear about the new house ! janelle you had some really awesome questions
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without trying to invade all your personal stuff can I ask about labor ?
did you tear at all or need stitches ? I just watched a birth in my online birthing class and I am now TERRIFIED to push out this baby
is there really a “ring of fire” that you feel as the baby is coming out ?
What about the placenta ? Does it just fall out
Have you looked at what you look like down there or just letting nature heal you up?
Did you use anything after pushing her out like the frida mom kit or padscicles ? Any advice for after birth healing?
if you don’t want to answer that’s totally find just know you’ll be raw and honest with us while everyone else acts like it’s rainbows and butterflies coming out of your wooha once you have the baby
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Of course! I plan on sharing it anyways!
I had a 2nd degree test so I did need a few stitches! I didn’t even know it was happening when my doctor stitched me up because Stella was on my chest and I had no care other than her
There was a ring of fire! But it’s temporary and you know it’s the end when you feel it.
I didn’t even know my placenta came out! It is supposed to come out without help but there are times it doesn’t so I was scared but I was thankful mine didn’t cause issues
I’m letting nature heal me! Michaels seen it though and said it looks good ! Lol
My mom got me the frida kit and it was amazing! You just really have to take it easy for a while.
I already forgot the pain of everything and in the moment you forget all your fears!!
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that’s what everyone says so I’m hoping I just am so caught up in the moment I forget any amount of pain when my baby is here
Thanks for being open and honest and always answering all our questions and topics that are sensitive
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You will!! I was terrified also and thought I would die in labor 😂
No problem!!!
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I know I’m so late and it’s almost Wednesday but do you have any ideas for Mother’s Day gifts ? What about Father’s Day. My parents live in Virginia so I can only go once so we are celebrating both holidays and I am the WORST gift giver, like cannot think of anything to save my life. Any ideas ? What did you ask for this year or think Stella will get you ?
What about your plans for Michael and his first Father’s Day
Ps. Happy three weeks to Stella and happy early first Mother’s Day ♥️♥️
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We always do personal gifts for mother’s and Father’s Day! I didn’t ask for anything and don’t expect much other than flowers and a card !!
I haven’t thought about what to get michael yet! Sorry I’m not much help on this topic!!
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can I ask you some baby advice for a new auntie on the block
my best friend is pregnant and trying to make her registry do you have a top five must have items for a new baby ? Any items you got and don’t think they live up to the amazing reviews or they don’t help you guys ?
thank you in advance for all your help!!
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I got a Baby Brezza which is a life saver. Would definitely recommend that. A good bassinet, a stroller and car seat system that go together, a jogging stroller, and lots of
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Lots of pacifiers was my last one! They go missing fast lol
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Do you have any advice on how to motivate to workout and lose weight ? Do you take a lot of progress pictures ? How do you handle going out eating/drinking while trying to stay healthy.
I feel like I am in a constant struggle between getting motivated and then having a few birthdays or events and falling off the wagon again !
How has weight loss been since having Stella ? Is it true what they say that weight just melts off ?
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It’s hard to get motivated but once you find that spark and get in a routine it’s so easy to stay in it! You just have to remember where you want to be. I do not take a lot of progress pictures- I usually forget. When going out I just order as healthy as I can. I usually enjoy myself a little bit but I don’t go to either extreme when I’m out.
It is hard to maintain motivation when you have a lot of functions but like I said you just have to make the right choices!
Losing weight so far is good!! I wouldn’t say it melts off but a good chunk comes off immediately after the baby is born. I don’t have too much work to get back to where I want.. and most of my weight went to my thighs as it always does!
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thank you! I’m hoping I can find a routine I love and stick with it to reach my goal
Any news on when the new blog will come out ? No rush at all we know you’re a new mama and she takes priority !!
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You will find it! It took me almost 2 years to really find my groove with something that worked.
And I’m hoping tomorrow but if not it’ll be next week!
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any word if the blog will be up today ? Hope you’re enjoying your first Mother’s Day weekend !!
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I know I’m a few days early but I wanted to say happy first Mother’s Day Alexa ! I hope the day is filled with joy and happiness and cuddles from Stella and Michael. I hope you make traditions you’ll carry on for the rest of her life.
A fun tradition we did with my girls was a photo of me kissing their cheeks, we would take one every year and when she graduated high school I gave her a photo album of all our Mother’s Days together to take to college
Oxoxo
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happy Mother’s Day !!
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Thank you!!
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I’ve tried to give some time while you enjoy motherhood and soak in all the small and big moments but am dying to hear about your experience ! Any news on the new blog, no rush at all I know as a mom of 4 these first few weeks are super tiring adjusting to a new lifestyle
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Thank you for allowing me that time! I’m going to try to get it out by Wednesday! We’ve had so many visitors and things to do it’s been hectic!
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I can imagine ! The first few months are the craziest but best months of your life ! I hope you’re enjoying it all and taking lots of pictures the days feel slow but the years fly by
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I sure am!! Sooo many pictures! It’s wild how fast it goes
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